The New Program that Changes Lives
Thu, Feb 7 2013 11:28 | Attention Management, Brain, Focus, Nervous System, Novelty, Relationship, Strength To Awaken, Strength Training
Ok, here's the deal. I've been searching long and hard for this program and I finally found it...
Pause a moment and take note of your experience right now.
What are you focused on?
How do you feel in your body?
What are you anticipating?
Isn't amazing what 24 words can do to us? 6 in the title of this blog and 18 in my first sentence. Chances are you just experienced what I call "The Lie of Novelty."
Generally speaking these are all good things. Greater presence and focus while becoming less distracted are all qualities many of us would gladly sign up for. However, the frightening problem is this:
Too often you are not in
the drivers seat of this process.
When this happens novelty governs attention. If you haven't noticed, whatever governs your attention governs you. As such, novelty often steals your autonomy, grabs you by the seat of your pants and takes you wherever it wants to. I don't know about you, but this is a problem.
Take a look at the kind of innovation within the American auto industry over the past 30 years. Minus a few innovations, a "new" automobile often involved changing the shape of the lights, maybe adding some subtle changes to the shape of the car and adding a few options. I recall being asked if I wanted power windows as an upgrade when my father and I got my first car in the 1990's.
I'm no auto expert, but I raise this industry as an example of the power of novelty as it's a multi-billion dollar industry resting upon very little innovation. Make it shiny, add a few superficial changes and essentially sell the same car the public is already driving. Sadly, it worked for way too long.
Inside of the focus that novelty often creates there is a second problem. Your focus is not passive, it is active. What hides inside of this activity is a common feature: projection. Novelty seduces your projections out of you. When this happens you don't simply take in what is novel, you project your desires and aspirations all over it. When this happens critical thinking and analysis are a secondary issue. An emotional decision has been made and you must now get this new thing. Justifying it in your mind is an after thought, you've already been sold.
This shows up in a shinny "new" car that likely functionally cannot do anything "novel" that your existing one does already. Regardless, novelty often means more happiness and getting what you really desire, or so the story goes. It shows up in relationships when someone "catches your attention." As you are no longer managing your attention, this stranger is now unknowingly or knowingly in control of you. You've never met them before yet suddenly you are seeing the possibility of some desire being fulfilled. You're in the "what ifs" land. And this of course shows up in your training. You likely are not seeing the results you desire, but that "new" program... maybe I can get it there.
Tour the fitness / health magazine rack and you will see novelty leaping out at you. Go to the library and find the 1993 or 2003 magazine cover from the same month as the one at the grocery store today and I would guess you will find the same messages repeated. Yet somehow it feels "new," as we look at the covers yet 10 or 20 years ago it was the same messages.
What's going on?
I'll add this: commerce often times rests upon novelty. This is actually how it should be. You get something for the novel emergence and innovation it brings to your life. The problem is that we have figured out how to wrap the same thing as if it was genuinely novel. In this climate, we find ourselves being driven by appearances.
The solution, in part, resides in the cultivation of your brain, nervous system and subjectivity such that you remain in the drivers seat of your attention. You must grow your capacity to manage your mind and attention. When you do this the once seductive charm of novelty loses it's ability to govern and enslave you.
When you take control of your ability to focus and attend, you take control of your happiness. You begin to find it right here, in this training routine, in this relationship here and in this car you are already in possession of. You can cease to be like a dog chasing its own tail and you can appreciate your life and derive greater pleasure, productivity and proficiency from penetrating into the life that already has you.
Perhaps this "new" way of attending to your focus and attention may indeed change your life ;-)
Author of Strength To Awaken